goodbye march ♥

You know, as far as months go March wasn’t a horrible one. I haven’t quite caught up on my November/December debt yet, actually I added to that with the breaking down of my car but despite that it didn’t quite suck as much as I thought it would. Does this mean things are slowly gettingRead more

around the mountain and through the woods

Usually The Person and I alternate weekends between myself and him but the past 2/3 months he’s been every weekend cause we have the pool and with it being so hot it needs work, also it’s here to swim in and cool down where as at him we just melt haha. But with working atRead more

Friday Tune-age

  I have so much going on in my head right now that I can’t actually get it down. You really don’t want to be around the crazy right now. So here’s a pretty song instead. Doesn’t it make you just want to go run through a forest, dip your feet in a babbling brook andRead more

zombie prompts for 2016

So Mama Zombie posted this yesterday and I think it’s so bloody brilliant I’m going to join her in it next year. I often struggle to actually sit down and post what’s in my head and keep thinking “I’ll do it later” then when I eventually sit down to write it it’s too damn lateRead more

minor vent post

“Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexhaustible source of magic. Capable of both inflicting injury, and remedying it.” — Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows I’ve followed this girl on instagram for a while now, I think I started following her through someone else when I was looking for other people with BPD toRead more

shit storms, car jamming and just being despondent

You may or may not have noticed I’ve been absent the last few weeks. If you didn’t, well you suck. I’ve had some good reasons for being away but the biggest its that every time I sit down to blog I lose interest or want to bitch so I decide not to. I had someRead more

you are not alone! by Jess McKay

I had the pleasure of meeting Jess at a media launch a few years back and I’m so glad we’ve stayed in touch, she’s an amazing person to follow and despite the hiccups and things thrown at her she always manages to get back up. A wonderful and strong lady am glad to say IRead more

you are not alone! by Lizanne Pitt

I met Lizanne from clayjarpeople (and here) years ago on twitter and she’s great, for the first time this year though I got to meet her in person and she’s even better, she totes get’s the awkwardness and doesn’t make you keep up conversation if you don’t want to. I’m glad I got to properly meet herRead more

you are not alone! by Mia

I met Mia at her birthday earlier this year (I think, time is weird to me) via The Person, well he was invited but I tagged along and I’m glad I did. She’s an amazing woman and has recently-ish opened up a second hand bookshop… yeah, my new best friend haha ;) And here’s herRead more

currently – september things

I have no idea what to actually blog about so here’s a little “currently” post idea I nabbed from The Blessed Barrenness… Reading – Today I started “Why you were taken” by JT Lawrence. A proudly South African author which I’m totally loving right now. The saffa author thing I mean. I read two books thisRead more

side effects

There seems to be this stigma that only weak people take medications for mental health (I was told this). Well fuck you if you’re one of those that think so. Seriously. Because you know what you’re not considering? Side effects. And let me tell you this, side effects are most definitely NOT for the weak.Read more

internets and karma and catching up

As you’ve noticed I’ve been a little quiet here. There are so many things I can tell you as to explain why but all of them are nasty comments directed at someone so let’s rather not go into it. Long story short I don’t have wifi at home and won’t have until next week someRead more

how to piss me off #3546

I’m really upset right now and I probably shouldn’t blog when I’m upset but I’m going to anyway. Someone posted this on Facebook: Unconditional love is like unconditional happiness, that doesn’t mean you are happy no matter what. It means that even when you are having the worst day imaginable, you owe it to yourself toRead more